Hello friends!!
My habit of connecting things and getting inspired from few real life incidents always lead me here in this space where I can freely share anything with you guys. This time I have brought a key to happiness. Yes!!! You heard me right friends.
Happiness is the only thing which we want in life. People think its an object to achieve but no its not a thing, its a mood which comes and goes more often. Its like being hungry and tired. Its not permanent..If we think about happiness this way then we can find it more often in our lives.
One such step or key to happiness is ACCEPTANCE. Accepting the things the way they are can make you more happy than always thinking of changing things and making fuss about things. We can correlate this with marriage. See in a marriage two souls are united even their families. Now before that boy and girl used to live in their own space but now they have to share each and every lil thing they own with each other. So, the first thing to remain happy with your partner is to accept him/her in your world. Until and unless we do so we can never be happy. Hence here only the rule of acceptance works.
I heard this acceptance thing from some serial ... Actually I dont watch much television but some how I got a glimpse of a scene where the actor was telling the other person that he has accepted the things as they are so he is happy ...
After marriage, even I used to make fuss about everything, every lil thing, be it my own flaws or my husband's or whomsoever concerned. I used to cry at night as I missed my mom alot in the initial days. I was not having a feeling of acceptance towards my new family and especially the house.. I never felt that it had the same warmth or welcoming spree as my house in ahmedabad. This all made me sad and dull. But slowly slowly I tried to accept the things as they were. Today I feel I am the happiest person on this planet. Being accepted and accepting something gives equal happiness and joy to ones heart.
Same ways when I joined gym at first I was not able to accept it as I used to feel that I m not accepted here by the people. They used to see me differently. I could not find any friendly faces anywhere but I tried alot to adjust and accept the things. I started being friendly with whomsoever came my way. I tried my level best to make friends just like I had in my earlier gym. But now I love going to gym here also. So acceptance takes a lot of time. Its a process of self development. And guess what God has made man in such a way that he can adapt to everything. Hence adaptation is nothing else but an outcome of acceptance!!!
My habit of connecting things and getting inspired from few real life incidents always lead me here in this space where I can freely share anything with you guys. This time I have brought a key to happiness. Yes!!! You heard me right friends.
Happiness is the only thing which we want in life. People think its an object to achieve but no its not a thing, its a mood which comes and goes more often. Its like being hungry and tired. Its not permanent..If we think about happiness this way then we can find it more often in our lives.
One such step or key to happiness is ACCEPTANCE. Accepting the things the way they are can make you more happy than always thinking of changing things and making fuss about things. We can correlate this with marriage. See in a marriage two souls are united even their families. Now before that boy and girl used to live in their own space but now they have to share each and every lil thing they own with each other. So, the first thing to remain happy with your partner is to accept him/her in your world. Until and unless we do so we can never be happy. Hence here only the rule of acceptance works.
I heard this acceptance thing from some serial ... Actually I dont watch much television but some how I got a glimpse of a scene where the actor was telling the other person that he has accepted the things as they are so he is happy ...
After marriage, even I used to make fuss about everything, every lil thing, be it my own flaws or my husband's or whomsoever concerned. I used to cry at night as I missed my mom alot in the initial days. I was not having a feeling of acceptance towards my new family and especially the house.. I never felt that it had the same warmth or welcoming spree as my house in ahmedabad. This all made me sad and dull. But slowly slowly I tried to accept the things as they were. Today I feel I am the happiest person on this planet. Being accepted and accepting something gives equal happiness and joy to ones heart.
Same ways when I joined gym at first I was not able to accept it as I used to feel that I m not accepted here by the people. They used to see me differently. I could not find any friendly faces anywhere but I tried alot to adjust and accept the things. I started being friendly with whomsoever came my way. I tried my level best to make friends just like I had in my earlier gym. But now I love going to gym here also. So acceptance takes a lot of time. Its a process of self development. And guess what God has made man in such a way that he can adapt to everything. Hence adaptation is nothing else but an outcome of acceptance!!!
Satya vachan.. Uchh vichaar!! :D :D
ReplyDeleteNo really, I firmly belive in the title of your post too :)